Showing posts with label This is My Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label This is My Life. Show all posts

Friday, 26 June 2020

But that's the way that I was born to be



Darlings! Reasons to be cheerful:
  • It's Gay Xmas Eve! - even if we have no Pride march nor parties to go to, other than via Zoom.
  • It's payday - even if the prospect of a return to shopping in Primark at the moment still seems weird, and somehow slightly scary...
  • We have the ultimate, most magisterial gay icon and Patron Saint here at Dolores Delargo Towers, Dame Shirley Bassey to lead us into the celebrations - as only she knows how [even if her audience in this clip doesn't]!
All the more reason to Thank Disco It's Gay Pride Friday!


Funny how a lonely day can make a person say:
What good is my life?
Funny how a breaking heart can make me start to say:
What good is my life?
Funny how I often seem to think I'll never find a dream
In my life
Till I look around and see, this great big world is part of me
And my life
This is my life
Today, tomorrow, love will come and find me
But that's the way that I was born to be
This is me
This is me

This is my life
And I don't give a damn for lost emotions
I've such a lot of love I've got to give
Let me live
Let me live

Sometime when I feel afraid, I think of what a mess I've made
Of my life
Crying over my mistakes, forgetting all the breaks I've had
In my life
I was put on earth to be, a part of this great world is me
And my life
Guess I'll just add up the score, and count the things I'm grateful for
In my life
This is my life
Today, tomorrow, love will come and find me
But that's the way that I was born to be
This is me
This is me

This is my life
And I don't give a damn for lost emotions
I've such a lot of love I've got to give
Let me live
Let me live

This is my life
This is my life
This is my life!


Amen to that.

Have a faboo sparkling weekend, dear reader!

Sunday, 8 January 2012

The Ultimate Diva



Diva, virtuoso, assoluta, demigod, phenomenon, superstar, divine one, glamazon, icon, whatever term you choose to use, Dame Shirley Bassey is all of them and more!

Celebrating her 75th birthday today, La Bassey has outshone, out-lasted (and out-belted) the best of the camp idols over the years, and remains at the pinnacle of her fame - seven decades on from her debut as a teenager back in the murky depths of Cardiff's club circuit.

Dame Shirley is indeed the Number 1 "patron saint" of our pantheon here at Dolores Delargo Towers. She has only today (remarkably) made her debut in the Dolores Delargo Towers Museum of Camp in celebration!

Less surprisingly, Shirley Bassey has featured here many times since the misty beginnings of this blog in 2007 - notably, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, and indeed here. Phew! I think she's a little bit popular.

The great diva's back catalogue is an endless realm of gay standards, drag queen arm-waving classics, belters, melodramas and tearful ballads. It is a difficult thing for a show queen such as I to choose an appropriate selection of favourites with which to wish the magnificent Tigress of Tiger Bay many happy returns - but I'll just limit it to a "few" favourites...










There are always the inevitable rumours that The Dame is on her way to retirement, and it is true she has stated she has no intention of putting herself through a full tour any more. However, she has said she will still continue to perform at gala events. So let us hope there's a big gala this year so I can (finally) get to see her on stage!

There is apparently a new tribute show by someone called Carolyn Rowe that is coming to the Leicester Square Theatre in March 2012, but somehow it won't be quite the same...

Facts about Dame Shirley Bassey:
  • She is the youngest of Nigerian sailor Henry Bassey and Englishwoman Eliza Jane Start's six children, although she also has four step-siblings from her mother's previous relationships.
  • Her nicknames include "Bassey the Belter" and the "Tigress of Tiger Bay" - she was born in Tiger Bay, Cardiff, an area which has since been renamed Cardiff Bay.
  • Bassey landed her first job in show-business in 1953 in touring variety show Memories of Jolson, based on the life of singer/comedian Al Jolson, but she briefly quit her burgeoning career when she fell pregnant with her eldest daughter, Sharon, at the age of 16.
  • The star scored her first recording contract in 1956 and released her debut single, Burn My Candle - the track was banned by the BBC due to its risqué lyrics, but it still became a popular chart hit.
  • Bassey suffered a tragedy in 1985 when her second child, daughter Samantha, was found dead in a river in Bristol, England. The singer maintains the 21 year old's death was not suicide, although a fresh police investigation into her passing ruled in 2010 that there was "no evidence of any criminal act involved".
  • She has recorded three James Bond theme tunes - the title tracks for 1964's Goldfinger, 1971's Diamonds Are Forever and Moonraker in 1979.
  • In 2000, Bassey celebrated a double whammy - she was made a Dame Commander of the Order of the British Empire and was named the Most Successful British Female Singer by officials at the Guinness Book of Records.
  • She was appointed a UNESCO (United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization) Artist for Peace in 2004.
  • She marked her 50th year in the entertainment industry in 2003 with the release of her album Thank You for the Years.
  • Her smash hit Goldfinger was inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame in 2008.
The Bassey Blog

Sunday, 9 October 2011

"This is me, this is me"



We watched the BBC's new "docu-drama" [another phrase I hate] about the early life of the ultimate diva Miss Shirley Bassey the other night, and thoroughly enjoyed it.

Shirley takes the story from Miss Bassey's poverty-stricken childhood in Cardiff, child of a white mother from Hartlepool and a soon-to-be-absent Jamaican father, through the pain of achieving her ambition to become a star. Given the onerous task of playing such a singular character, the Ethiopian-Irish actress Ruth Negga did a sterling job, with all the sassiness and hutzpah required to convincingly portray the transformation Miss Bassey achieved every time she stood in front of her audience. On occasion, we cheered!

At times the drama did feel a little "compacted" to fit its allotted time (and presumably the BBC budget) - the "abandoned" baby hidden from the public, the often violent relationship with her manager, the rise and fall of her marriage to gay film producer Kenneth Hume, the extramarital pregnancy, the reaction of society to the ascendance of a black star in a white entertainment world - but despite cramming a lot in, this just had the effect of making us want more.



According to the Herald Scotland review:
"I’m surprised it’s taken the BBC this long because her life is just right for this kind of drama: it’s tragedy with glittery bits, it’s the story arc of poverty-talent-success to the soundtrack of a big voice, it’s a woman singing "I Who Have Nothing" while wearing an expensive diamond necklace. In other words, contradiction, pain and struggle.

Ruth Negga, who plays Bassey, gets the visuals just about right too because she homes on all the physical traits that make the singer memorable: the swaggering hips, the twitching lips and those swooping, sweeping arms that – you may not know this – Bassey uses to spell out secret semaphore messages to her gay fans. On top of all that, there’s the jewellery and the voice (the real one dubbed over Negga’s imperfect miming) which, all in all, makes the whole thing a kind of impersonation, a drag act. A perfectly good one, but a drag act."
The critics have not been universally kind to the production, but in my opinion in concentrating on the parts I think they have rather missed the sum of them - a heartwarming, camp, excellently-acted melodrama, much like Miss Bassey's real life, in fact!

Thus far, Shirley is not available on BBC iPlayer, but inevitably it will be shown again - catch it if you can.

This early performance by Our Shirl was perfectly portrayed by Miss Negga (right down to the hair flicks and gestures) in the programme:


Funny how a lonely day, can make a person say:
What good is my life
Funny how a breaking heart, can make me start to say:
What good is my life
Funny how I often seem, to think I'll find never another dream
In my life
Till I look around and see, this great big world is part of me
And my life

This is my life
Today, tomorrow, love will come and find me
But that's the way that I was born to be
This is me
This is me

This is my life
And I don't give a damn for lost emotions
I've such a lot of love I've got to give
Let me live
Let me live

Sometime when I feel afraid, I think of what a mess I've made
Of my life
Crying over my mistakes, forgetting all the breaks I've had
In my life
I was put on earth to be, a part of this great world is me
And my life
Guess I'll just add up the score, and count the things I'm grateful for
In my life

This Is my life
Today, tomorrow, love will come and find me
But that's the way that I was born to be
This is me
This is me

This is my life
And I don't give a damn for lost emotions
I've such a lot of love I've got to give
Let me live
Let me live

This is my life
This is my life


More about the story of Shirley in The New Statesman

Monday, 4 January 2010

Zilveren regeringsjubileum van de koningin



This year, one of our favourite tacky artists Gerard Joling [founder member of the fab supergroup De Toppers - read my blog last year about them - and back with the group in 2010] celebrates 25 years in showbiz!

This fills me with great excitement as it gives me an excuse to celebrate too, on this first Tacky Music Monday of the year, with a selection of fabulousness by the true Queen of the Netherlands...




...and, of course, our favourite!


Gerard Joling website (in Dutch)

Wednesday, 9 January 2008

There is nothing you can name that is anything like a dame!



Ah, Dame Shirley Bassey - what a woman! What a diva!

The unchallenged Empress of the dramatic power ballad, Our Shirl has been at the top of the showbiz league since she was "discovered" by bandleader Jack Hylton singing in a Cardiff nightclub in the early 1950s.

Rightly admired by queens across the globe (including our own HM, who is a great fan apparently), Shirley Bassey's theatrical performances - and of course spangly frocks - never fail to send shivers down the spine!

Surely no-one can resist singing along (and waving your arms) to the likes of Goldfinger, Diamonds Are Forever, or This Is My Life? Where would James Bond be without a Shirley Bassey number? And don't we all love that "Morecambe and Wise" sketch when she puts her foot through the set?

Adopted as an honorary god in her native Wales, Dame Shirley is indeed worthy of that cliched accolade "national treasure", and we love her for her humour, her hutzpah and her charm.

She celebrated her 71st birthday yesterday in Los Angeles - HAPPY (belated) BIRTHDAY!

But in true diva style she hosted a glamorous ball at Clivedon in December, at the end of her 70th year...




Songs of Shirley Bassey fan site